On The Nature of The Simp

An anonymous commenter recently sent me a video. I’ll include it below; but first, I’d like to examine the nature of the simp.

I have no idea where I heard this word. I imagine it was from Hotep Twitter, or perhaps Tommy Sotomayor. I know members of both those aggregations use the term to describe the henpecked, the pussywhipped: the male auxiliary of the Society for Cutting Up Men. I don’t know its etymology. If I had to speculate, I’d say “simpleton” is a good candidate for its origin. Simps are men who refuse to accept reality, and they resist learning from their mistakes.

The psychological origin of the simp, as I see it, is twofold. Many simps idealize the female. This foolish notion, often implanted from a young age, by pop culture and a single mom, allows for such men to deny the reality of wimminz misbehavior while offloading all the consequences of same onto men.

The second origin of the simp follows naturally from the first, and is a function of his general unavailability to women. He rarely sees women in their natural state, because women don’t find him attractive, and he doesn’t have many dates (and often, doesn’t have much sexual intercourse, either). Idealization springs naturally out of ignorance.

The end result is all around us: men who think they are “incomplete” if they’re not being exploited and used by a filthy wimminz. This is a fair example.

Lyrics:

Bright Lights, Fancy Restaurants
Everything in this world that a man could want
I got a bank account bigger than the law should allow
Still I’m lonely now
Pretty Faces from the covers of a magazine
From their covers to my covers want to lay with me
Fame and Fortune still can’t find, just a grown man runnin’ out of time
Even though it seems I have everything
I don’t want to be a lonely fool
All of the women, all the expensive cars, all the money don’t amount to you
So I can make believe I have everything, but I can’t pretend that I don’t see
That without you girl my life is incomplete
Without you girl my life is incomplete
Listen
Your perfume, your sexy lingerie
Girl I remember it just like it was on yesterday
A Thursday you told me you had fallen in love, I wasn’t sure that I was
It’s been a year Winter, Summer, Spring and Fall
But being without you just ain’t livin’ ain’t livin’at all
If I could travel back in time, I’d relive the days you were mine
Even though it seems I have everything
I don’t want to be a lonely fool
All of the women, all the expensive cars, all of the money don’t amount to you
I can make believe I have everything, but I can’t pretend that I don’t see
That without you girl my life is incomplete
That without you girl
I just can’t help lovin’ you
But I loved you much too late
I’d give anything and everything to hear you say, that you’ll stay
Even though it seems I have everything
I don’t want to be a lonely fool
All of the women, all of the expensive cars, all of the money don’t amount to you
(you can have it all) I can make believe I have everything,
but I can’t pretend that I don’t see (Just give me my baby)
That without you girl my life is incomplete
Even though it seems I have everything
I don’t want to be a lonely fool
All of the women, all the expensive cars, all the money don’t amount to you
So I can make believe I have everything, but I can’t pretend that I don’t see
That without you girl my life is incomplete
Without you girl
Without you girl
Without you girl you girl my life is incomplete
Without you girl you girl my life is incomplete
Oh yeah
My life is incomplete
Oh yeah, yeah

4 thoughts on “On The Nature of The Simp

  1. ‘He rarely sees women in their natural state, because women don.t find him attractive, and he doesn.t have many dates (and often, doesn.t have much sexual intercourse, either).’

    Or he’s just not paying attention because of the idealization. Wimminz often spill their guts about their state all the time. You don’t need to date a wimminz or heaven forbid become ensnared with one of them to see what their heart is about.

    Women either follow the path of Eve or the path of Mary…it’s as simple as that.

  2. Another funny one is the Latino singer Nicki Jam. He looks like a hardened criminal with the neck tattoo and everything. But then he sings some Omega song/video called “Casate Conmigo” (Marry Me) which is truly embarrassing.

    The music industry eventually breaks all these “bad boys” into stooges for the Feminine Imperative.

  3. “Idealization springs naturally out of ignorance.”

    A very common problem today. With so much information now available, one would think communicating it would have kept pace.


    “Another funny one is the Latino singer Nicki Jam. He looks like a hardened criminal with the neck tattoo and everything. But then he sings some Omega…”

    This is Rock Star game. A preselected Alpha pretending to be Beta is fried ice chick crack… until he loses his Alpha card. The industry doesn’t break them so much as watch them walk a sexual tightrope at high speed, equally eager to cheer their successes or crashes. Like NASCAR.

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